Bro called on xmas day

bro called the house here and hubby picked up and he didn't say anything and hung up and then later called my moms house cuz he knew we'd be there and talked to me a few times...
he wished me a merry xmas and i did the same to him...and found out that he's living with like 6 other roommates....and he's only 4 blocks from our house...and i guess he lost his job at the restaurant place that we bought his stuff for shirt shoes and haircut remember?? well he lost that job and now is jobless once again...and he wants to work in the bar that he always goes to...he says the owner likes him....what he doesn't know is that i know the owner too and i can put in a horrible word lol....
but i wont cuz i dont really care what happens to him...and i know if he ever called to come back i'd laugh so much in his face...
but anyways...bro said that he was going to call my mom to see if he could still come over for xmas to surprise us
so just thought i'd share that with you all...

The End

It's Finally Over... Bro Has Packed His Shit And Left...And I Didn't Even Have To Ask Or Tell Him...He Did It On His Own.. So I'm Still Out 400 Dollars But At Least He's Out And I Can Start Living Our Lives Without Him Again...

So This Is The End Of The Bro Series.....

Tired

I'm tired of kids today...and today bro comes home from work and i lay out some german sausage for dinner tonight for us and he goes whats that i said sausage and he goes sweet i said yea and you dont get any...and he goes why's that i said because i dont have to feed you...and i dont...and i shouldn't have to nor be expected to ...and he better remember who's house that he's under cuz at this point i'm just really ready for him to leave...NOW!!!! but i want to get as much money back as possible... so what the hell do i do?!?!? just kick him out and forget about the money that he owes us or just wait until the end of Dec like i want and get as much money back as i can ...
UGH!

Have To Be Stupid I Guess ...

The night that bro lost his job I talked to my mom and she lit a fire under my ass which helped I needed it. So I told him he was out the end of Dec. and me and hubby told him that we would spend half on a bus ticket home if thats what he wanted....which is 45 dollars....and he thought about it for a min and said no...i said thats fine..whatever...so then hubby gets his debit card out and i take it and i dont know what he got it out for but i guess we were just thinking the same thing and i said all u have to say is no and i won't and he didn't say anything and so me and bro left to go get the shit he needed for his new job cuz he didn't have shirt, shoes and a haircut...so spent 70 dollars on him AGAIN... so then he started his new job on time and thank god and said he would pay us back and i'll be making sure of that...and me and hubby talked we still are going to kick him out the end of Dec and i'll make sure that we have at least most of our money that he fucking owes us... and i'll be done with him and won't be no more fighting or arguing and i'll get to live with my family once again IN PEACE...

and right now at this moment in time i'm still pissed at him and he's getting the cold shoulder from me and if he talks to me my answers are really short and simple... after we paid 70 for his stupid ass shit for his new job we did NOT get ONE fucking THANK YOU...NOT EVEN ONE!!!!!
what the fuck is that all about?!?! that just proves how UNGRATEFUL he is...and i just gotta keep reminding myself..get most of your money back and kick him out the end of Dec...and its still my plans...
thats all i got for now...

While On Vacation

so last week for thanksgiving i had all last week off...so we went up to hubby's parents house for thanksgiving and on the way there we were thinking about what to do with bro...so here's sort of what we came up with...let me remind you he still owes us 300

we decided that he could pay us half of what he owes us and be out by the end of dec or pay us all of it before the end of dec and be out the end of jan ... well i made a deal with him ,....if he could pay us all of the money by the end of jan he could stay...if not then he was out immediately if i didn't get my money and we agreed on 100 a paycheck...and i made sure hubby was okay with that and he was...

so now bro got another job and has to have some kind of black shoes and a white button down shirt and it has to be specific on the shirt and yet he has NO MONEY to get those and i'm not giving him any money...

well tonight is monday night and after i get off work bro is here..i was like WTF?!?! he had to work until 730 tonight... and as soon as i walk in he goes guess what ..i said what...he goes i got fired from kmart i said WHAT?!?!?!?! WHY!!! he said because of not meeting company policy... so now he has a job but can't work it until he gets this stuff for his job and lost his other job...and OMG me and hubby were blowing up at each other and i go how many 2nd chances are we going to give him...i said OMG...he said we're not we're DONE...so hate to tell bro but he's out by the end of this month no matter what....AMEN !!!!!!!!!!!

To Be Continued ....... ....... .......

Where Do I Begin

Okay so last week or the week before bro and I had gotten into a fight about money...
idiot went overdrawn in his account almost 300 dollars and after his check from work posted he was still negative 100 dollars...so that meant no money for me and hubby...fine then we'll let it slide and he also needed to pay us another 20 or something like that so the total for the next paycheck was going to be 150...well i told him 175 and he goes where do you get the other 25 from i said...interest...he said you can't do that...i said why not!??! he said your not a bank...i said its my house and its 175 and he goes okay whatever i'll just pay the 150 i said NO mother fucker its 175 and blah blah blah and whatever else....so then i got tired of waiting to hear an answer from him on weither or not he was going to pay the 175 and i said you have ONE MINUTE starting NOW to tell me if your paying the 175 or not ..cuz if not you can see your way out the door...so he yells at me and says yes now leave me the hell alone i said i dont have to do shit and blah blah blah and we're carrying on ...and finally he gets out of his seat and comes where i was seating and gets all up in my face and takes a half swing at me ...and backs off and i stand up and get right back in his fucking face and i'm screaming at him i said i've had enough...you can just leave...and poinsted to the door and he just stood there and i grabbed some of his clothes outta his dresser and he goes dont touch my shit...i said i have your shit in my fucking hands...and i opened the door and the screen door and while i'm throwing them outside he manages to get half of them back inside so he goes outside to get the rest of them and i said to hubby lock the screen door cuz he's not coming back in here and i opened up the kids's window to throw the rest of his shit out and i hear him on the phone i need a police officer to such and such address and i closed the window and told hubby...that mother fucker just called the police on us and he goes for what i said i dont know but get your jacket on cuz we'll wait for them outside ...so we grabbed our jackets and headed outside so then we're all 3 getting into it...me and hubby against bro... and he was like i didn't even call the police and blah blah blah and finally me and hubby went to bed so thats the end of round ONE

On Strike Until Further Notice

I Am On Strike With This Blog Until I Receive A Cold Hot Crash CD !!!!!
I Am Sure Someone With 12 Dollars Can Buy Me One And Have It Shipped To Me!!
There's Lots Of Drama Going On With My Brother And Tons Of Stuff I Could Be Posting But Not Until I Get A CD

Bro Must Have Bumped His Head Or Sumthin...

he just called wanting to knwo what we had for supper...i said we got something and he goes oh you got something i said yeah we just went out...and he was ...OH...i said why...he said well i didn't eat anything yesterday when you guys ate tacos last night and i was hoping you were going to cook and save me something...i didn't say anything and then he goes well i gotta go cuz i'm at work i said okay...and then we said bye
(just reminding you all that me and hubby have NO KIDS tonight so its just us two while he's working)
so anyways just got done speaking to hubby...we're tired of not getting any respect back from him and he's not even trying to make money if you know what i mean...he just does whatever he's gotta do for however many hours and comes home and goes out again all fucking night...well that shit is going to STOP...me and hubby are thinking about giving him 2 weeks to find another part time job or a better paying full time job....and we're also talking about if he doesn't straighten up in ONE month we're kicking him out...we're sick of this shit and we'll cut our loses and be done with him...he's not making the effort and we're done playing ball in his court its our turn baby...and its OUR WAY OR THE HIGHWAY!!!!! we dont ask much but damnit we do deserve the respect....and instead of him paying us 80 this week i'm going to give him the 15 dollars back for groceries and tell the lil fucker to get his own fucking groceries i'm done making his supper...and he can have whatever...and may i remind you we have a huge chest freezer downstairs full of fucking pizza since i do work in a pizza factory...i get cases of pizza's for a fucking dollar....so our freezer is always almost full and its pretty close right now as we speak...so him not eating anything i dont feel sorry for him and i'm tired of his pity party cuz i'm done with it...i dont feel sorry for him ONE BIT...he's the one that chooses to eat...NOT ME...its his body...NOT MINE (thank god) and right now i'm just fucking done and tired of this shit...
on a good note...me and hubby may have found a dog for our family... :) it's the type of breed we've been looking for...its a 6 yr old female dog but they have great temperment and are great with kids and other animals and only going to cost us a 100 dollars for the dog which isn't bad since the breed you can buy them for almost 1500 for a puppy...so wish us luck...thanks

Picking Up Bro From Work

Okay so i am looking for songs to listen to on the korn cd that i burned...well it was korn and limp bizkit...and i come across the song by limp bizkit..my way...so i was like OH PERFECT!!!! so i turn it to another song and wait until i pick up bro from work ... so then he gets in the vehicle...and bout 5 seconds later i turn the song...cuz i knew he liked the song that was playing before i turned it so i was like screw him...so i turn it on the limp bizkit song my way...and the first part of the lyrics are...you think your special you do..i can see it in your eyes....okay so the special part came out and bro goes i'm special...i said yes special ed so be quiet (only cuz i was singing the damn song damnit) and he goes why are you illin today...((((OKAY WHO THE HELL SAYS ILLIN)))) anyways so i come home and message hubby to tell him what happened in the car...and i said the lyrics to him and then i said bro said he was special and right before i messaged him on what i said hubby said what special ed....we had to high five...lol...and when i got home after i told hubby what had happened and we had our laugh for the day i told bro that on monday and tuesday he has to walk ... only cuz we're broke :(

bro's work

well due to bro's stupid mistakes at work with his phone and shit....he can only be a cashier now....well...he's only working 3 days this week...sunday which was yesterday ...he works today which is monday lol...and works tuesday...and then off the rest of the week....thats only a few hours every day ...so now i'm going to mention another part time job...cuz i'm going to make sure i get my money each and every week....he owes me 5 dollars more this week because we played poker last night at my moms house and i told him he could just pay me the 5 on monday (which is today remember) well i ended up winning last night..and he didn't win anything...i won first which was 15 dollars...which was the 15 i had in there anyways and my mom won 5...which is the 5 that she put in there....so we both broke even but i will come out 5 dollars ahead when i get my 5 dollars today plus the 50 that he owes me.....last night i asked him when i was going to get my 50 and he said...i thought it was 30...i said no its 50 ...i said i would drop off the extra 30 this paycheck since i know yo have your cell phone bill to pay for....so he owes me 55 dollars and if i dont get it today he's out...plain and simple...so he better be paying me or he's gonna have to find a new place to stay...and he's already bought some other crap...he bought himself mcdonalds last night after the bar and he bought the new spiderman 3 dvd ...and his cell phone bill....so we'll see how much i get cuz i better get all of it!!!!!!
THE END!! LMAO

I Give Up

Okay so bro comes home the other day and starts tellin me that he got wrote up at work and all this other crap and then he can't work in the eletronics part of the store anymore because they found 4 dvd's sliced open and dvd's missing and it happened on his saturday shift. I know the other week or so he got his phone taken away while he was at work cuz he was text messaging people while working and not paying attention. Yeah he's stupid..we all know it. So Anyways I went to bed early one night around 10 or so cuz i was tired from work since i do work 12 hrs a day like hubby and hubby and bro were talking and bro wanted to commit suicide and i am like what the fuck?!?! is he being truthful or just wanting to get some attention his way?!?! and so i can get on his myspace page and i've been reading some of the stuff that he's been saying to his friends and all this other crap and he's telling everyone that he's 100% german when he's only half german..and he's telling them that he's going to die in 3 yrs so he only had those 3 yrs to live and all this other crap and people are believing him and i am just like what the fuck?!?!!? and then he keeps telling them that he's coming home soon which i hope he does cuz i'm tired of his ass already. So we talked to him monday about paying us some money cuz we're tired of not getting anything back and he's living in our house and eating our fucking food and shit and not paying for it...so we didn't ask for much we asked for 50 dollars for his bill that he owes us and then 30 for gas n food combined...and we'll get that every other week so we'll get 80 twice a month...so thats a start...and we told him about it and he didn't even give up a fight or nothing cuz i was ready for one damnit...maybe he over heard part of a conversation that happened on sunday..when i called into a show...i dont know...but whatever the reason is...i'm happy that he's going to abide by it...but if he loses his job then he's out...i am not going to support his ass for another 3 weeks while he was out of a job...and right now i'm thinking about making my own candles...i'm a candle freak and probably would just be better if i learned to start making them myself ..hubby said i could start selling them but most of them would be for the house...so i dont know...guess we'll just see what goes on later on after i start making them and seeing how they turn out and shit...i think i am done ranting with this post...stay tuned for the next drama bull shit...

My Mistake

okay so we all make mistakes right?!?! well hubby called the bank today and turns out it was one of ours...so no bro didn't use the card...DAMN!!!!!! i mean...ummm....i dont know what i mean. But anyways, hubby and i were talking last night before bed and we were going to talk to bro today...well we were going to demand 50 twice a month...so thats 100 extra coming in until 400 is paid...and we're asking 30 for groceries and gas for the vehicle together and we knew bro would put up a fight but we just got done talking to him a few mins ago and he's just fine with this...and he better be lucky that he is cuz if he wasn't he would have been outta here. I think he knows we're tired of this shit and now its his turn to play ball in our court...so this week we'll get 50 and after this week it'll be 80 twice a month...YAY!!!! WOOO HOO :) it's about time something went right with this whole situation...
anyways i'll post more when he gets paid and see if he actually does keep his word...

WHAT THE FUCK!

okay so yesterday my brother watched the kids while me and hubby went grocery shopping and we were gone quite longer than we were anticipating to be gone...so we got mcdonalds last night and even got some for my brother cuz we're nice people...and we spent 30 freakin bucks...okay so last night i looked and everything that we did grocery shopping wise went through ...and i just checked on our online bank account...so this morning i woke up and looked on there looking for the gas i did last night for the van and the mcdonalds ...well...there was a post on there from mcdonalds but it was for 5.35 and had today's date on it...10/28/07....and last night hubby left his wallet and keys out on my showcase in the front room..plain as day...and who's to say that he didn't take the card and take the vehicle and get mcdonalds?!?! we were sleeping...but the only other thing that could happen is that mcdonalds screwed up on charging us...but on the reciept it says they charged our card the 30 dollars...so i dont think they screwed up...so hubby will be calling the bank tomorrow to find out whats going on and what time the person went to mcdonalds and which card was used...cuz if it was MY card then yes they screwed up on charging me BUT if it was hubby's card...then someone else fucking used it....and if i find out that he fucking used my fucking card...he's fucking GONE...i'm packing his shit and kicking him the fuck out...It will be OVER....
look for the update tomorrow night when i find out cuz i'll be working all day tomorrow and i'm calling on my lunch break to find out who did what...
so please check back tomorrow !! thanks

Tired Of BRO!!!!!!!!

okay so its been nice that he's found a few friends at work to party with and hang out with at night. I shouldn't complain correct?! and he has a job. What more could i ask for right?! well, there's tons of shit i can ask for that he doesn't consider doing...he still doesn't help out with housework and sleeps until whenever and expects me and hubby to wake him up for work. He has no idea or concept of the real world or how it runs/works. And I'm really tired of it. Hubby and I were talking and I think we are going to see if he's going to stay in kansas for awhile or if he's moving back home. The other night he told us that he was goign to stay here for awhile and maybe live here. Well thats great i dont really give a shit on what he does as long as he stays outta my hair. So i think we are going to talk to him...if he's going to stay in kansas for awhile we are going to give him until first part of dec to find an apartment and roommate to live with and get away from us. And if he's moving back home i'm giving him until the first of Jan. That should be long enough to save up money and shit right?!?!? One can only hope. And he does smoke a lot and not in the house cuz i dont allow it and if he spends all of his money on cigs and all of this other crap thats his fault not ours and he still has to be out in that time frame. I just want him outta my house and let me go about living our lives like we were before he even showed up.

Update On Bro...Good One

Okay So Bro Got A Job Where I Work...Working 12 Hrs A Day, 3 And 4 Days A Week. Making 10.75 Starting Out And Would Have Gotten A Dollar Raise After His 2 Months. And He Lasted A Whole Week And 2 Fucking Days. He Supposidly Hurt His Back (remember he's only 20) And The Work Place Was Going To Move Him Elsewhere In The Factory And They Showed Him Video's Of What He Could Be Doing And He Thought It Looked Boring. So He Just Up And Quit. Hubby And I Gave Him 2 Weeks To Find A Job. His 2 Weeks Was Up On Friday But He Had An Interview On Monday With K-Mart. And He Was Lucky To Get The Job. And Thank God That He Did Because I Told Him Earlier That Week That If He Didn't Find A Job, I Was Kicking Him OUT And Not Paying For His Bus Ticket Back Home. So On Monday I Come Home After Work And Found Out He Got The Job. (Please remember in those 2 weeks there was a lot of fighting going on between me and him and he threatened to get our kids taken away from us and things were NOT pretty)

But Now He's Got A Job Making 6.50 An Hour (pardon me while i laugh) And At Least It's A Job Only If It Is Part-Time. But He Did Make A New Friend Or Two And Is Out Quite A Few Nights Which Is Fucking Awesome. I Enjoy My Time Away From Him And Just With Hubby And Kids.

Posting New Pictures

I guess I will post a new picture every month instead of every week. I can't keep up with it every week and I post when I can as it is now. So, every month please check back for the picture of the month.

Snow Queen Is This Week's New Photo

Picture For The Week

Brother IS HERE finally

okay so my brother is finally here... he got here a little late this afternoon because of the bus driver they were behind...so i had to wait almost an hour for him
so then after i got him i took him to walmart and got him a few things that me and hubby knew that he would need...and then i show him around town for a little bit and showed him where one of the skate parks was and stuff... and we're all leaving town tomorrow .. its a 4 hr ride there and i know he's tired from all the running around from his 2 day bus trip so i hope he'll be okay i know he just wants to relax tonight and everything so its okay and i know we'll be home sunday sometime and monday and tuesday me and hubby both work so he'll have the house to himself so at least he can relax then i guess
but at least he's here and he's okay now .. even though the house is still a little bit of a mess

Update On Bro

okay so it's monday and i am going to send him money western union tonight once hubby comes home...he leaves wednesday afternoon and he'll be here friday afternoon
i'm excited but nervous .. its been 13 yrs and for a visit wouldn't be as hectic but since he's gonna live here its like my house has to be picture perfect which it never will be with 4 kids but hubby and i are busting our asses getting the house clean like it should have been kept when we first moved in here but with 4 kids that doesn't help either... we're also sending him money that i put in the savings last week which is all we have for the week...and hopefully we can gather some groceries together with no money and whatever we have at the house...so good luck to us i guess...
update on the house..its getting clean which is great..but still have work to go....i took a nap today instead of cleaning so i'm going to clean tonight while everyone goes to bed i think or i'm going to bust my ass tomorrow morning and get most of it done since tomorrow is my last day off for a few days
so thats just an update on everything going on right now

i've been listening to my favorite band all day which hasn't even released an album yet but they do this fall sept/oct which i will be buying cuz i love them .. they are fucking awesome
it's been a long 2 yrs for them to produce this album but its finally coming out and i can't wait

New Art For The Week

Here's a great picture that i hope you all find enjoyable

Brother

OKAY, so one of my brothers is in need of some help. He's living in his vehicle which isn't good at all and illegal in many states and his car doesn't even run. So my husband and I have offered him a plane ticket to kansas for him to live with us for a little while. I don't know how well this will work out but I know that he deserves a fresh start in life. We've all been through a lot with our father being in prison. And his poor mother is a drug addict. So I know he's had a rough start and a rough life and everyone deserves a fresh start and to get back on their feet and headed in the right direction. Even though my husband and I don't have a lot of money we're pulling through and buying him a plane ticket and welcoming him to our SMALL home. I haven't even seen any of my brothers or sister in 13 years and one day I was looking through myspace and figured maybe I would look for them and see...well I have at least found my 3 brothers, and we've been talking and it's been great getting to know them again. They are only my half brothers and my half sister but to us we're still family and we're just brothers and sisters.
He'll be flying in around August 17th. Which is coming up very fast.
So Wish Us Luck Cause We're Going To Need It.

Just Wanted To Show Some Art

Here is one of her art work pieces. I will also post a new art work every week so stay tuned.